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What To Do When The Big "O" Is A No-Show In Your Sex Life
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If you're experiencing difficulty reaching an orgasm in the bedroom, you're not alone. Studies reveal that orgasms are a no-show in the sex lives of 10% of women. Most of the time, inability to reach an orgasm is a temporary condition, treatable by counseling or by resolving the underlying issue that's causing the problem. Anorgasmia is the medical term for this distressing problem, and it can occur as a result of physical or psychological conditions.
Physiological conditions
Physical conditions that cause anorgasmia are less common than psychological ones. Spinal cord lesions, nerve damage in the pelvic region, or blood vessel damage in the pelvis can make achieving an orgasm difficult. Painful intercourse related to vaginal dryness, large uterine fibroids, or endometriosis can also be a factor. Your OBGYN doctor can often diagnose and treat these conditions and help you get your sex life back on track again.
Prescription Medications
Anorgasmia is a common side-effect of some narcotic and antidepressant medications. You should discuss changing your medications with your doctor if the problem coincides with a new prescription you started taking. The solution might be as simple as working with your physician to find a medication with less detrimental side effects.
Don't rule out over-the-counter medications either. Medications react differently in the human body. Even if sexual side-effects aren't known to be caused by a particular pill, your body may be reacting unfavorably to a certain ingredient in the formula.
Psychological Issues
Sexual dysfunction may be the result of past sexual abuse or rape. Even fear of becoming pregnant can make it difficult to relax and enjoy sex. Extreme anxiety or stress can cause you to tense up and not be able to relax enough to feel sexual sensations. Depressive disorders may cause you to feel a lack of interest in activities you once found pleasurable. If you're experiencing any of these issues, you should seek treatment with a professional counselor.
You may find it embarrassing to talk about your sex life with anyone. Inability to reach an orgasm may cause you to feel inadequate in the bedroom. You may be faking it because you don't want to make your partner feel inadequate as a lover. However, a sexual problem is no different from any other health condition. Doctors deal with these private issues on a regular basis, and what you discuss with your physician or psychologist is kept confidential. You don't have to suffer in silence when it comes to problems in the bedroom.
Take the first step and schedule an appointment with an OBGYN physician to rule out any physiological causes for your condition. They will work with you to find the best treatment for your specific needs and will refer you for counseling if necessary. You don't have to miss out on the pleasures of an intimate relationship, and you and your partner will both benefit from your new and improved sex life.
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